Hari Raya Puasa is the most eagerly awaited festive celebration among Singapore’s Muslim population. It is the celebration of the conclusion of Ramadan, which is a month of fasting and spiritual contemplation. This festive occasion is not merely about festivities and new attire—it is also a time of harmony, family ties, and graciousness. Whether you are organising an open house or going out to meet friends, knowing the dos and don’ts of this celebration can enable everyone to partake in the festive moments with respect and warmth.
Getting Your Home Ready for Visitors
As a host, opening up your home for Hari Raya Puasa is not simply a spring cleaning. It’s also a demonstration of your consideration for the event and guests. Most homes start with a deep clean weeks in advance of the event. New drapes, furniture reorganisation, and the inclusion of decorative elements such as fairy lights or cultural designs such as ketupat and crescent moons are typical.
You must also prepare an assortment of festive food, ranging from savoury ones such as rendang and lontong to desserts such as kuih tart and ondeh-ondeh. Make sure to consider dietary requirements when serving food to visitors, and have drinks available for those making repeat house calls during the day. Seating should be family-friendly and accommodating enough to fit family members and friends regardless of age.
Greeting Guests The Right Way
On the day itself, hosts commonly welcome guests with a friendly “Selamat Hari Raya” and then the expression of “Maaf Zahir dan Batin,” which is a request for forgiveness for any transgressions committed. This greeting is both religious and cultural, representing a renewal of relationships.
Hosts would usually reserve a spot for the guests to leave their shoes prior to entry. It’s a little gesture that shows respect for the home and maintains its cleanliness. Children are told to salam (a respectful greeting) with their seniors to thank them and gain their blessings. Red packets or “duit raya” are occasionally distributed to children, so it’s best to have some ready at hand in case of young guests.
Being A Good Guest
If you happen to be visiting a Hari Raya Puasa open house, a thoughtful guest is what you should be. RSVP whenever asked and try to show up within the agreed time. Sending a small gift—such as a box of kuih or a fruit basket—is a nice gesture that also indicates appreciation.
Dress in simple and dignified attire, even if you are not Muslim. Steer clear of extremely revealing or informal clothing. It’s a nice gesture to wear traditional clothing like baju kurung or baju Melayu, but it is not required unless the host insists.
When given food, it is courteous to sample a little of everything, even if merely a small amount. Praise for the efforts of the host is always welcome, as they would have probably spent hours preparing.
Respecting The Occasion’s Significance
Although Hari Raya Puasa is a celebratory event, it is still deeply religious. Avoid bringing up subjects that are likely to be contentious or unsuitable, especially at a religious function. Be respectful of family times for prayer, which may occur during your stay, and wait if the host must excuse themselves briefly.
This time also prioritises forgiveness and humility. Numerous people use the occasion to forgive family and friends and apologise. When a guest is part of these moments in a respectful manner, it can enhance your appreciation and knowledge of the celebration.
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Keeping Cleanliness And Courtesy
In a hospitable culture, the guests must also endeavour to keep things clean. Dispose of tissues or serviettes properly after use and be careful not to stain furniture or carpets. When eating by hand, as is the practice with traditional foods, wash your hands before and after meals.
During the middle part of the celebration, families can have several groups of visitors within a single day. Not taking too long and keeping your visit friendly gives the host time to rest and prepare for the next batch.
A Thoughtful Goodbye
On departing, express gratitude to the host for their kindness and effort. If visiting a household of children, greet and bid farewell to the young ones and elders as a sign of respect to the entire family.
Since Hari Raya Puasa is all about unity and balance, departing with good words and blessings makes the festive spirit endure.
Conclusion
Whether you are hosting or a guest, being observant of good manners and being respectful while being at Hari Raya Puasa enhances the community and friendship ties. It is a moment to reflect, forgive, and celebrate as one.
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